Yes!: 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to Be Persuasive Paperback – December 29, 2009

I loved this book. I learned so much. I highly recommend.

Had to get this for a marketing class, a really good read with a lot of useful info

"Just because yes is simple and obtainable, we shouldn't be fooled into believing that anyone can easily secure it from others""Yes!; 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to Be Persuasive" by Noah J. Goldstein, Steve J. Martin, and Robert B. CialdiniThe title says it all really; the book is filled with 50 ways (I'd rather say "examples") of persuasion. They are (for examples);"What one word can you start using today to increase your persuasiveness by more than fifty percent?""Which item of stationery can dramatically increase people's responses to your requests?"SPOILER ALERT!! (the answer to the two questions are; "because" and "Post-It notes")...I'm not going to list all 50 ways from the book; I'll go right to my Six Elements Review that the ideal business book is "easy to read, distinct, practical, credible, insightful, and provides great reading experience"Ease of Understanding: 8/10; the small book is separated into 50 chapters and each chapter takes less than 5-10 minutes so, it is easy to understand. However, the drawback of Yes! is its lack of structure; 50 ways are loosely tied (if at all) together.Distinction: 8/10; it is undoubtedly a great compilation of persuasion techniques. The highlight is the word "50'; it is difficult to provide readers with 50 ways "persuasively" but Cialdini, Goldstein, and Martin could do it.Practicality: 4/10; as interesting as those fifty ways are, I can say that it is very difficult (if possible at all) to implement any of them appropriately. Each situation in the book or in your lives is unique. It is more possible to successfully persuade others and look back to the techniques in the book and match them than the other way around.Credibility: 6/10; the gook point is that every way is backed with good and, sometimes, amazing example(s). The bad point is, it might not be enough to use one example (or a couple of them) to describe the ways and claim that they are "scientifically proven".Insight: 5/10; I think 5 is fair because as you know that there are fifty ways! It is impossible to dig deep into every (any) way.Reading Experience: 9/10; This is, by far, the most outstanding element of Yes!; this book is fun. Take this book with you along with another book and if you're bored with the other book, take some times off and read Yes!; it is refreshing. I would compare the book to Aesop Fable not that they are childish and fictional but they are;1. Concise and precise2. Every story teaches you a valuable lesson3. You mention it in a hindsight when something already happened! ("Oh, this situation is like the story of "The Hare and The Tortoise"... "I persuaded my friend and it was like the way no.XX from Cialdini's book"!)Overall: 6.7/10; I'd say "buy it"; it's fun and won't waste your time because you'll learn many things from the book and you'll find those examples and stories amazing. However, be careful when you try to do any of those ways; make sure you think of the other 49 ways first!Viriya Taecharungroj[...]

Before commenting on this book I need to disclose one very important piece of information. I've been a big fan of Dr. Cialdini for fifteen years. And I'm happy to say that I'm met him on several occasions. Now that I've disclosed this to you, I must tell you that this book is such a wealth of information that you can literally take one page at a time and put it's power to use over and over again.Based on the most current scientific research and studies, YES! is a cookbook of the most effective, useful and powerful techniques of persuasion and influence ever laid out for the public to see.I was surprised when I read Persuasion Secret #15. It's right out of STAR WARS. But STAR WARS is a movie. This technique is real! Clinical studies sited show absolutely the science behind the psychological principal Luke Skywalker used to turn his father away from the Dark Side.Its so simple you too can put it to work immediately after reading the short three pages detailing it's precise method and use.And maybe even more important, there are a tremendous amount of unethical people out in the world trying to influence you without your knowledge. Protect yourself from these unscrupulous people!This is one book that has the power to enhance anything you seek to accomplish in your life.

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This book is full of interesting and useful ideas about persuasion. It draws on findings from a wide range of research/experiments on decision making.There are, however, a couple of aspects of its presentation that I find frustrating. First, the authors are often very brief when describing the experiments from which important lessons are drawn. With social science experiments such as these, where there are various factors that are difficult to control, I find it impossible to judge the validity, applicability, or limitations of their findings without considering the sampling methods, conditions under which the experiments are conducted, etc. It is true that the authors do provide footnotes that show where one can look up the papers presented by the various researchers. Assuming that a casual reader has access to all the academic journals concerned, it is unrealistic for him/her to make the enormous efforts to go through all of the very large amounts of background materials. The alternative would be to take the authors' words for granted, which is hardly the attitude to take when one considers evidence-based findings.My second frustrations has to do with the authors' presentation of the 50 ideas as distinct lessons, without any attempt at grouping (say, based on related concepts or relative importance, etc). As such, I find it difficult when I try to remember the ideas, or refer back afterwards without having to flip through 50 chapters.