Net Stretch Pants Knickers Mesh x5 Pairs Incontinence Fixing Pants (Large)

the men incontinence brief is falling down from the waist though it is a crroct size. What can be wore to keep it in brief with pad in place. 6’ 85kg.

Waist size .. for large net pants

Has anybody got any advice of what to wear over the top of these for a elderly lady ? She doesn’t want to wear knickers.