--- product_id: 397904628 title: "How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love" price: "€ 25.14" currency: EUR in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.de/products/397904628-how-to-not-die-alone-the-surprising-science-that-will store_origin: DE region: Germany --- # How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love **Price:** € 25.14 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love - **How much does it cost?** € 25.14 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.de](https://www.desertcart.de/products/397904628-how-to-not-die-alone-the-surprising-science-that-will) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description A “must-read” ( The Washington Post ) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams—from the Harvard-trained behavioral scientist and featured dating coach on Netflix’s The Later Daters. Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives—they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love. Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how. This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone ) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories. You’ll learn: -What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern) -What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t) -How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you) -How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love) -How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews) -Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway) This “data-driven” ( Time ), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams. Review: Amazingly entertaining, yet filled with practical advice backed by social science!! - It’s exciting to encounter a book that is both immensely practical in its advice and also backed by serious principles from behavioral economics, social science, etc.! Although I’m now partnered up; until recently, I was on the dating market and I find that many things I did *well* in dating are similar to Ury’s suggestions. One part that I especially loved was her discussion of the pre-date ritual and how important it is to not have “resume exchanges” and to break the patterns that we can easily fall into on dates, where we fail to get to know the other person. Since getting the book, my partner and I actually have been reading it together and she has been sending the dating tendencies quiz to all of her friends. My partner made the mistake of telling a “Hesitator” that she needs to get out more and stop making excuses not to date— her Hesitator friend replied that dating tendencies are dumb! I’m not always a fan of typologies, but think that these tendencies do shed a lot of light on modern romance. Finally, Ury’s writing style and contemporaneous examples make this book a real treasure. For example, in the part about getting exes out of your mind(!), she warns against stalking on exes by looking at their Venmo transactions. (Haven’t we all been there??). This book is great and also makes a wonderful gift for anyone in the throes of dating or who feels like being nostalgic reading it with a current partner. Review: Great practical advice and exercises! - Now I just have to find someone to work through all the advice. LOL! I think it’s great for any age at any stage of their life. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | #10,367 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #29 in Emotional Mental Health #33 in Dating (Books) #42 in Love & Romance (Books) | | Customer Reviews | 4.4 out of 5 stars 3,142 Reviews | ## Images ![How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81WgConr6+L.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Amazingly entertaining, yet filled with practical advice backed by social science!! *by D***C on February 25, 2021* It’s exciting to encounter a book that is both immensely practical in its advice and also backed by serious principles from behavioral economics, social science, etc.! Although I’m now partnered up; until recently, I was on the dating market and I find that many things I did *well* in dating are similar to Ury’s suggestions. One part that I especially loved was her discussion of the pre-date ritual and how important it is to not have “resume exchanges” and to break the patterns that we can easily fall into on dates, where we fail to get to know the other person. Since getting the book, my partner and I actually have been reading it together and she has been sending the dating tendencies quiz to all of her friends. My partner made the mistake of telling a “Hesitator” that she needs to get out more and stop making excuses not to date— her Hesitator friend replied that dating tendencies are dumb! I’m not always a fan of typologies, but think that these tendencies do shed a lot of light on modern romance. Finally, Ury’s writing style and contemporaneous examples make this book a real treasure. For example, in the part about getting exes out of your mind(!), she warns against stalking on exes by looking at their Venmo transactions. (Haven’t we all been there??). This book is great and also makes a wonderful gift for anyone in the throes of dating or who feels like being nostalgic reading it with a current partner. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great practical advice and exercises! *by A***R on July 16, 2026* Now I just have to find someone to work through all the advice. LOL! I think it’s great for any age at any stage of their life. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Practical advise to find and thrive in a relationship *by S***S on September 8, 2022* This book offers clear, science-based advise on how to deal with different stages of finding and thriving in a relationship. From tips to get in the right focus to find a partner, to tips on how to meet them, how to decide whether to breakup or stay, and even how to keep a relationship in the long term. The practical advise/tools are very useful and the behavioral science backing them up is clear and simple. That being said, the book feels sometimes like a toolset to be used when needed. The line connecting the different chapters is weak as each stage seems to use a different theoretical approach. This makes the advise fragmented so something you use as needed rather than a perspective you can use continually. If your situation is a bit different from the one covered in the book, you might have little guidance. Also because of the lack of a common framework it is a bit hard to keep everything in mind as you read the book. Still it is useful as a toolset that covers most stages in romantic life from a rational science based perspective ## Frequently Bought Together - How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love - How To Talk To Anyone By Leil Lowndes - Paperback - Harriman House The Psychology Of Money: Timeless Lessons On Wealth, Greed, And Happiness --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.de/products/397904628-how-to-not-die-alone-the-surprising-science-that-will](https://www.desertcart.de/products/397904628-how-to-not-die-alone-the-surprising-science-that-will) --- *Product available on Desertcart Germany* *Store origin: DE* *Last updated: 2026-08-21*