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# Killing Me Softly (Unrated Edition) [DVD]

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Product Description Red-hot Heather Graham (Boogie Nights) and Joseph Fiennes (Shakespeare in Love) sizzle like never before in this steamy sexual odyssey about the addictive and deadly powers of illicit passion. Too much of a good thing can be deadly. When Alice (Graham), an American living inLondon, meets Adam (Fiennes), a handsome adventurer, she's lured out of her safe, mundane life to pursue an affair that brings her to the heights of excitement and ecstasy. But when Adam's mysteriousand violent past begins to surface, Alice investigates and learns that Adam's pastand her future may both point to murder! desertcart.com It's easy to identify the biggest attraction of Killing Me Softly: two fetching actors (Heather Graham, Joseph Fiennes) and lots of nudity--especially in the unrated version. It's harder to choose the bigger liability: the dialogue howlers (as Fiennes binds Graham in ropes, she says, "Sometimes I feel like I don't know you") or the incredibly obvious solution to the big mystery. The story is an unofficial update of Hitchcock's Suspicion: a new wife wonders whether her unbelievably charismatic husband might be a murderer. The Chinese filmmaker Chen Kaige (Farewell My Concubine) turns out to be exactly the wrong director for this overheated slice of l'amour fou in London, but with the hopeless pairing of Graham and Fiennes as the passionate lovers, he didn't have much of a chance. A nicely romantic Patrick Doyle score is the only reason not to hit the Mute button and enjoy the visuals. --Robert Horton

Review: Great Movie - The product shipped and arrived on time in excellent condition. The movie was great.
Review: We know why we wanted to watch it ;) - Crazy, animal sex. I received this from desertcart yesterday and watched it last night. I already knew what I was getting into after reading about 'Killing Me Softly'. But, reviews from critics and viewers mean nothing in the end because, it all boils down to opinion. And everyone's got one. My opinion: I liked it. Sometimes, we women just want to see some skin, too. My motivation for buying this wasn't to see Heather Graham naked. She could've been dressed the whole time as far as I'm concerned and it would make no difference. The main reason I got this can be summed up in three words: Joseph Fiennes. Naked. Having been in a situation almost 90% like Adam and Alice, I 'got' the movie. The only difference was that we shared more than a cab ride and six words and I didn't marry him. And, let's face it ladies, if Joseph or a man that looked like him opened the cab door with that dark, brooding, feral look, resistance would be pretty futile. If that's all he did the whole movie, I still would have been happy. One of my favorite scenes was the autoerotic asphyxiation with the silk scarves. Yeah, I thought it was hot. Maybe because I'm just slightly on this side of crazy? No. Not really. I think the the whole 'it's not normal, so it must be wrong' bit is pretty absurd. As long as it's done safely and consensually, I don't see a problem. But when a man is that passionate, surely there's anger just below the surface. In fantasy, it does the job. But, in real life, we know it almost never works out with a happy ending. What a pity. Adam Tallis, played by Joseph Fiennes, is a famous mountain climber with dark secrets in his past. He's controlling and somewhat sadistic but a very passionate and tortured individual. When he meets Alice, played by Heather Graham, the sparks fly. He only knows her first name and she knows nothing about him. But that doesn't stop them from giving into that instant, sizzling chemistry. No, it's not love at first sight. I don't think it's possible. Lust, however, is a whole different story. Alice and Adam eventually get married when Alice starts receiving some disturbing notes about Adam. She starts getting suspicious and goes snooping in his locked cabinet and finds old love letters from Adele, who's been missing for 8 months. Then another woman, Michelle, accused him of rape some years back. It wasn't confirmed in the movie but if I had to go on Adam's anger, possessiveness and the need for power, I'm leaning towards a 'yes' on the rape. One of Adam's darkest secrets, in my opinion, was his sister, Deborah. It wasn't the accusation of rape and murder that turned my stomach. It was the fact that Adam and Deborah had more than sibling rivalry going on between them when they were younger. That made her possessive of Adam, thinking that since they had shared the bed, she owned him always. Just another sick, twisted perversion. Some downsides: I didn't like the music. When I saw the trailer on the 'Special Features', I wondered why they didn't use that music instead. Being the Enigma Freak that I am, I would've loved to have heard some 'Mea Culpa', 'Sadeness' or even 'I Love you...I'll Kill You'. But, then again, I think Enigma fits with everything. The movie moved along too fast for my tastes. I wanted more back story to Adam's life. Why was he a sadist? What made him want to do the things he did? Why did he have trust issues? What happened in his past to leave him so emotionally scarred? Did the shared incest make his outlook on women turn negative? I'm willing to bet that it did. I'd be willing to cut a sex scene or two--minus the silk scarf scene--if they had added 20 minutes extra to delve into the rape, murders and Adele and Adam's story. I understood enough from Alice that I needed no more into her life. I love a mysterious man, but when he's too mysterious, it's easy to get suspicious. Adam just wanted Alice's trust. But why? What was he hiding? I give an overall 4 stars because all in all, I wanted to see Fiennes in all his dark, brooding, grunting glory. And because, sometimes, you just want to watch movies like this. Purely for erotic entertainment. I recommend.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| ASIN  | B00008972P |
| Actors  | Heather Graham, Ian Hart, Joseph Fiennes, Natascha McElhone, Ulrich Thomsen |
| Aspect Ratio  | 1.85:1 |
| Best Sellers Rank | #55,254 in Movies & TV ( See Top 100 in Movies & TV ) #8,736 in Drama DVDs |
| Customer Reviews | 4.1 4.1 out of 5 stars (311) |
| Director  | Kaige Chen |
| Is Discontinued By Manufacturer  | No |
| MPAA rating  | NR (Not Rated) |
| Media Format  | Anamorphic, Closed-captioned, Color, DVD, Dolby, Full Screen, Subtitled, Widescreen |
| Product Dimensions  | 7.4 x 5.4 x 0.6 inches; 2.4 ounces |
| Run time  | 1 hour and 40 minutes |
| Studio  | TWENTIETH CENTURY FOX HOME ENT |
| Subtitles:  | English, French, Spanish |

## Product Details

- **Format:** Anamorphic, Closed-captioned, Color, DVD, Dolby, Full Screen, Subtitled, Widescreen
- **Genre:** Drama
- **Language:** English
- **Runtime:** 1 hour and 40 minutes

## Images

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great Movie
*by A***R on January 30, 2023*

The product shipped and arrived on time in excellent condition. The movie was great.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ We know why we wanted to watch it ;)
*by B***R on September 21, 2013*

Crazy, animal sex. I received this from Amazon yesterday and watched it last night. I already knew what I was getting into after reading about 'Killing Me Softly'. But, reviews from critics and viewers mean nothing in the end because, it all boils down to opinion. And everyone's got one. My opinion: I liked it. Sometimes, we women just want to see some skin, too. My motivation for buying this wasn't to see Heather Graham naked. She could've been dressed the whole time as far as I'm concerned and it would make no difference. The main reason I got this can be summed up in three words: Joseph Fiennes. Naked. Having been in a situation almost 90% like Adam and Alice, I 'got' the movie. The only difference was that we shared more than a cab ride and six words and I didn't marry him. And, let's face it ladies, if Joseph or a man that looked like him opened the cab door with that dark, brooding, feral look, resistance would be pretty futile. If that's all he did the whole movie, I still would have been happy. One of my favorite scenes was the autoerotic asphyxiation with the silk scarves. Yeah, I thought it was hot. Maybe because I'm just slightly on this side of crazy? No. Not really. I think the the whole 'it's not normal, so it must be wrong' bit is pretty absurd. As long as it's done safely and consensually, I don't see a problem. But when a man is that passionate, surely there's anger just below the surface. In fantasy, it does the job. But, in real life, we know it almost never works out with a happy ending. What a pity. Adam Tallis, played by Joseph Fiennes, is a famous mountain climber with dark secrets in his past. He's controlling and somewhat sadistic but a very passionate and tortured individual. When he meets Alice, played by Heather Graham, the sparks fly. He only knows her first name and she knows nothing about him. But that doesn't stop them from giving into that instant, sizzling chemistry. No, it's not love at first sight. I don't think it's possible. Lust, however, is a whole different story. Alice and Adam eventually get married when Alice starts receiving some disturbing notes about Adam. She starts getting suspicious and goes snooping in his locked cabinet and finds old love letters from Adele, who's been missing for 8 months. Then another woman, Michelle, accused him of rape some years back. It wasn't confirmed in the movie but if I had to go on Adam's anger, possessiveness and the need for power, I'm leaning towards a 'yes' on the rape. One of Adam's darkest secrets, in my opinion, was his sister, Deborah. It wasn't the accusation of rape and murder that turned my stomach. It was the fact that Adam and Deborah had more than sibling rivalry going on between them when they were younger. That made her possessive of Adam, thinking that since they had shared the bed, she owned him always. Just another sick, twisted perversion. Some downsides: I didn't like the music. When I saw the trailer on the 'Special Features', I wondered why they didn't use that music instead. Being the Enigma Freak that I am, I would've loved to have heard some 'Mea Culpa', 'Sadeness' or even 'I Love you...I'll Kill You'. But, then again, I think Enigma fits with everything. The movie moved along too fast for my tastes. I wanted more back story to Adam's life. Why was he a sadist? What made him want to do the things he did? Why did he have trust issues? What happened in his past to leave him so emotionally scarred? Did the shared incest make his outlook on women turn negative? I'm willing to bet that it did. I'd be willing to cut a sex scene or two--minus the silk scarf scene--if they had added 20 minutes extra to delve into the rape, murders and Adele and Adam's story. I understood enough from Alice that I needed no more into her life. I love a mysterious man, but when he's too mysterious, it's easy to get suspicious. Adam just wanted Alice's trust. But why? What was he hiding? I give an overall 4 stars because all in all, I wanted to see Fiennes in all his dark, brooding, grunting glory. And because, sometimes, you just want to watch movies like this. Purely for erotic entertainment. I recommend.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Satisfying thriller with luscious Heather Graham naked
*by P***R on September 7, 2013*

I am puzzled by some of the very critical reviews here. I would not describe this as "softcore" erotica, but as a somewhat erotic thriller. Heather Graham is luminously beautiful, both when clothed and nude. The sex scenes are somewhat titillating, more so (I suppose) if you like to see the male controlling the woman while being a bit out of control himself (not my cup of tea). Being a heterosexual male, I find Ms. Graham's body to be absolutely stunning, and would never tire of seeing her nude. But there is plenty of tension here, in this thriller tale. Highly recommended.

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