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# How to Carry What Can't Be Fixed: A Journal for Grief

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Review: A brilliant author who knows grief. - This author is one of the best who truly understands grief. I would highly recommend anything she writes
Review: Helpful even after seven years - My son died of suicide seven years ago, but this book still helped me. I learned that both my love *and* my grief for him will be with me forever, and that they are both important parts of my spiritual and emotional relationship to him. It is good to know that I am not the only one who has had to endure cruel words or behavior from others after my loss. And that I don’t have to “accept” my son’s death, or move forward on anyone else’s timetable. It also helped me to learn on the web that in 2022 the author wed the most wonderful man, and that she is deliriously happy. This, as much as anything in the book, strengthened me, and gave me hope for the future.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #5,842 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #1 in Coping with Suicide Grief #21 in Love & Loss #27 in Journal Writing Self-Help |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 4.7 out of 5 stars (1,825) |
| Dimensions  | 7.3 x 0.55 x 9.5 inches |
| ISBN-10  | 1683643704 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-1683643708 |
| Item Weight  | 2.31 pounds |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 216 pages |
| Publication date  | May 18, 2021 |
| Publisher  | St. Martin's Essentials / Sounds True |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ A brilliant author who knows grief.
*by A***R on December 1, 2025*

This author is one of the best who truly understands grief. I would highly recommend anything she writes

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Helpful even after seven years
*by S***A on August 31, 2025*

My son died of suicide seven years ago, but this book still helped me. I learned that both my love *and* my grief for him will be with me forever, and that they are both important parts of my spiritual and emotional relationship to him. It is good to know that I am not the only one who has had to endure cruel words or behavior from others after my loss. And that I don’t have to “accept” my son’s death, or move forward on anyone else’s timetable. It also helped me to learn on the web that in 2022 the author wed the most wonderful man, and that she is deliriously happy. This, as much as anything in the book, strengthened me, and gave me hope for the future.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ There As I Can
*by K***K on October 2, 2022*

Thank you Megan Devine. If you are grieving over the loss of someone you hold most dear? Too precious, and your heart, too tender, to feel understood? This is helpful. This is soo helpful. I don’t think this is a journal one can use for awhile though, not while you are still screaming about a loss so deep you still can’t breathe… but in time. I also have her book, so that’s why I feel I can write that. I love the author. I love that she shared things I feel, inside her book, “It’s OK That You’re Not Ok”. Clearly, her pain came to her as brutally as I feel mine. I am indebted to Megan Devine. I felt as if I was no longer allowed by others to express my sadness and hole, this place in our bed, the intimate conversations and moments, where my husband once was. She made me feel validated. I know that it will still be a long time till I’m not crying everyday. It’s brutal and feels so cruel to me. But at least I know that someone gets it and I don’t feel so alone because of that. Her advice towards the end of her book is to reach out to the “tribe”. I’m not ready for that but at least I have her books. Thank you Megan. UPDATE: I ordered this, again, a couple days ago because I’m struggling. I had to return my copy before because just the thought of filling out a journal about my precious, beautiful husband overwhelmed me. Today, I went to a home improvement store. I really have not gone anywhere since I lost my husband 9 months ago. The world feels strange now and I had a hard time just sliding my credit card. “Where does my card go in the machine again?” I asked. Do I have to be ok now? I’m not and I just don’t see how I ever will be, so I ordered this and it was on my porch when I got home. The first page I opened the book to said, “How can people just carry on, like nothing has happened?” I just burst into tears! That’s exactly how I felt at the home improvement store. I found myself wanting to tell people. But you know, they just wouldn’t know what to say to me. Someone gets it though. Megan Devine gets it, so she wrote this journal. Thank you Megan Define.

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